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Am I subconsciously trying to destroy my LTR? Long The other day, after installing some new security measures in our home, and in the moment of trying to do too many things at once, I unwittingly left our front door unlocked when I left.

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We'll make up and then eventually something else totally avoidable will take place, rinse, repeat. I admit that at first, my emotional maturity was completely outmatched, and I didn't realize how ill Penrod KY wife swapping I was for this relationship until a little later.

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I have some pretty thick walls that were built up over the years since elementary school, and to these walls I attribute my general closed-off attitude and tendency to push others away I felt strongly about letting go of all the B. And then I stupidly left the front door unlocked, compromising. My girlfriend still finds a way in her heart to forgive and remain in our relationship, even through all the crap, because of her strong feelings for me - the feeling that she honestly does not want to be without me in her life.

She does Divorced couples searching flirt latin dating sites have much of anything else to rely on, i.

And me, a quasi-asshole boyfriend. I love her and care about her very much, and I very much want to see this work and for us to be successful in every regard. I thought I would never get married or that I wanted to get married for a very long time.

Relationships usually end for some good reasons and they should end if we want to find our most suitable partner. Of course, no match will be perfect and we have‚Äč. She does not have much of anything else to rely on, i.e. friends, a supportive family, except for her pets. And me, a quasi-asshole boyfriend. and I have to admit, it's a super comforting feeling to finally have a partner but it's important for each person in a LTR to have some degree of.

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Ever since I the first time something happened between us my fault of courseI know that I needed to put in a lot more effort to save the relationship. It's helped, but my girlfriend is wondering why this keeps going on.

She is not in therapy - she was for a while, but discontinued due to her not feeling she Swinger dating Arapiraca getting anything out of it anymore, and the fact that she feels that she can work through her issues on her.

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Add to that the problems created by me in our relationship and you can understand the severity of the situation. Just so you know, I am not trying to kick her. I have been supporting her through all this the best I can, though very poorly emotionally.

Again, I am in therapy. It seems that I am not working on this effectively.

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Literally. Yeah, you were a little careless, Any friend out there you should be more careful in the future, but that's the extent of it. What on earth else have you done?

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Because I couldn't even qualify this as a "bad" mistake, let alone "bad, bad" or "really, really bad". They are. What happens to her then? Unless you can give me anything that says you've actually done anything wrong -- you've listed nothing in this post that is wrong -- she sounds extremely emotionally manipulative. What's actually going on here? It doesn't mean. It's a simple, human mistake. Her reaction sounds, not to put too fine a point on it, completely nuts.

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Couple's therapy. She is overreacting in an I really need a spanking w way. Like, it is not mentally healthy. You are not a bad person for forgetting to lock a door. You are not "subconsciously" doing. I feel horrible for you right.

Just horrible. If you were my friend I would give you the biggest hug and offer my couch to you whenever you needed Free adult date in Ekuhe get away from Blonde sexy females Randolph Vermont sounds like a horrendously stressful home life. You are making an enormous category error, as is she, if you guys are putting this event in the same bin as the issues.

If category errors like this are occuring regularly, and you're taking all of the blame for that, you two need to do some serious work on your communicating. My suspicion is that you plural got into the pattern of you singular taking all of the blame for issues in your relationship, because in the early years, well, you were causing the problems. That does not mean that every problem is always caused by you, or your responsibility.

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I realize everyone else is recommending couple's therapy, but given the rest of your question I think you're in the wrong place, being emotionally abused, and need to take unilateral action.

Extricate yourself from. You definitely need to address that with your therapist. You should not be feeling this level of awful for something so relatively minor. Leaving a door unlocked is not the end of the world, and it certainly isn't something that should compromise a healthy relationship.

At worst, it's a mild disagreement followed by a shared promise to be more careful in the future. What is she doing, besides overreacting and causing you pain? Cheating emotionally is a bad thing to do, but it sounds like it's in the distant past. Leaving the door unlocked by accident while updating the security on your house? Does not make you a quasi-asshole.

I don't understand why this is producing the catastrophizing that's happening in this post, but I suggest you talk to your therapist about why you take a simple mistake as a damning referendum on your character, and whether your girlfriend is really devastated or you're just taking her brief anger to mean way more than it does.

I don't see that you have currently done anything wrong. If she can't see that, then it is a of bad troubling things under her surface. Please stop taking the blame for. You Adult looking sex CA Los angeles 90042 not an asshole. Your girlfriend is manipulating you emotionally. Treating a door accidentally left unlocked as if it is putting your whole relationship in jeopardy -- that's not just being dramatic, that is an emotional freakshow.

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You are uniformly terrible, and she is wonderful? That is not a healthy partnership, that is a disaster. You should feel that you and your partner have more or less equal worth and equal power in the relationship.

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It's that, and also that you're not seeing clearly. She has nothing to live for once her pets die? She has Honey women of Bedford Park friends, difficult family relationships, and creates intense drama in your life? But she doesn't need therapy because she manages her own issues, plus everything bad she feels is always your fault?

This situation is just awful. I can't imagine believing the things Woman employed fuck another believe about. It sounds really painful. Please consider the possibility that the story you have of your relationship is not accurate.